List of bdsm terms

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Confused about BDSM terminology? Want to know what the difference between a freakout and a failsafe? Need to know the importance of aftercare or what irrumatio is? It seems right then that BDSM should cover a cornucopia of other abbreviations, acronyms and specialist terms. To avoid any confusion, we wanted to put together an ultimate guide to the most popular BDSM terms with a brief definition of each. Abrasion play: The use of something abrasive like sandpaper or a wire brush to stimulate sexual pleasure. Can leave marks and even draw blood in some cases. Adult baby see Age Play, Diaper Lover : Role play where one or more participant takes on the part of an infant or toddler.

Aftercare: An important element of post BDSM activity whereby participants wind down after a play session. Depending on the nature of the sceneaftercare can be viewed as anything from an essential component of BDSM play to a practical necessity.

Aftercare ranges from simple rehydration to real intimacy with a partner. Age play: Kinky play whereby one or more participants in a scene act and dress as though younger in age. Usually the Submissive, the age of the role can be anything from baby to older. The nature of play is often based on a nurturing relationship but can also include sexual relations. Age Play: Any scene which involves participants role playing with age.

Algolagnia: Relating to sexual gratification and pleasure that has been caused by pain, usually from stimulation via an erogenous zone. Anal hook: A hook inserted into the anus from which the wearer may be suspended see suspension bondagebound or otherwise restricted. Anal torture see figging : Causing pain to a Submissive through anal play. Anal training: The practice of stretching the anus over a period of time by gradually introducing increasingly larger objects. Usually training is part of a build up to anal sex or anal fisting and uses butt plugs.

This kind of list of bdsm terms should not be mistaken with zoophilia or bestiality which involves sexual interaction with a real animal. Animal play may or may not involve sex and list of bdsm terms often more based on role play featuring objectification. This kind of play can involve animal transformation fantasy where participants fully immerse themselves in the fantasy that they are a different species.

Anime see Hentai and Manga : Japanese animated cartoon style originating from the s. Anti-humiliation or Reverse humiliation: Using emotional play to cause tears or a breakdown.

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The opposite of Subjecting someone to humiliation, this kind of treatment builds in intensity and consists of being, and doing things that are, exceptionally nice. Auralism: This kink causes the Subject to become sexually excited by noises, sounds or music. Bagging: Causing arousal via the use of suffocation. Ball gag : A type of gag that uses a ball placed in the mouth to prevent the wearer from speaking or making a loud noise. This differs to Edge Play where the only risks are in improper technique or mechanical failure. Body worship: Where a Submissive shows immense respect and worship to their Dom.

This can include ritualistic behaviour but is more commonly excessive licking, sucking, fondling and kissing. Bastinado: A form of impact play whereby the soles of the feet are the target of spanking, slapping or whipping. Beating: Any form of impact play where a Dom uses their hands or implement paddle, whip, crop etc to hit their Sub.

Bisexual: Someone who indulges in sexual activity not always intercourse with members of either sex. Bit or bit gag : Used primarily in pony play, a bit gag is a kind of gag which features a solid tube mouthpiece similar to a horses bit or bridle. They are usually made from latex or soft rubber to prevent dental damage. Image via Wikimedia.

B lack sheet party: Referring to the popular rubber sheets that are principally made in black, this is a term for any kind of BDSM party which can include some messy play see Wet and Messy ; usually some form of orgy or gangbang. It can also be used when Subs are expected to ask permission from their Dom before they use the toilet. Blood play: see cutting : Any kind of play where blood is intentionally drawn from a recipient. Body modification: This can relate to any of changes adopted by a participant in BDSM play and can be something as simple as tattoos, piercings list of bdsm terms breast enhancement to scarring, Subdermal implants and branding.

Most changes are permanent or semi-permanent. Bondage mental or psychological : The act of restraint simply by obeying orders. Bondage physical : Any act which includes the restraint of a partner as part of sexual play. It can refer to full body restraint or just one area of the body such as genital bondage also known as chastity.

Often for photography. Refers to the primarily physical aspect of BDSM; that of restraint and of physical play. Bondage belt: A specific belt used to physically list of bdsm terms someone during bondage play. Straps usually have metal D rings to attach to anchor points or other equipment, they are generally made from leather. Bondage suit: A specially deed suit more commonly made from leather, a bondage suit offers a snug fit for the wearer and can be used for mummification or easily attaching to equipment such as suspension furniture.

Boot worship: Any form of play where excessive respect or worship is shown for the footwear of a Dominant player. This can be ritualistic in nature but may simply be cleaning or polishing or, more commonly, with adoration in the form of kissing, sucking, fondling and licking. Bootblack: Similar to boot worship but more specifically used as part of a military style scenea bootblack is someone who shines or polishes a pair of boots.

Bottom : Another name for a Sub. See top and middle. Bowcatting see cunnilingus : The act of giving oral sex to a woman. Brands can be permanent or semi-permanent. Brat: Submissive role players are known for their obedience but a brat is most often disrespectful and less cooperative. Breast bondage: Any physical restraint of the breasts most commonly female but can also refer to male breast tissue including clamping to the chest, wrapping of the tissue to form bulges or the use of nipple clamps. Whilst this can cover simple HOM hand over mouth this kind of control can be very dangerous and extends to the use of physical choking or bagging.

Breeding: Referring to unprotected sex where a male partner ejaculates inside either the anus or vagina. Though it references pregnancy, the term can be used to describe the same act when ejaculate is released inside a man or from a squirting dildo. Brown shower see scat and Wet and Messy : Any play which involves a participant defecating on another person.

Bull: An Alpha Male, normally well-endowed and used to refer to a man who has sex with the partner of a cuckold.

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Bullwhip: A single lash whip see singletail which has a heavy braided or woven leather lash and a sturdy handle. Bullwhips are normally quite long and the lash should be at least four inches in length. Bukkake: A term used when a woman is list of bdsm terms ejaculated on by a of men. Butt plug: A shaped object that is inserted into the anus; similar in shape to a dildo but with a larger flared or flattened to prevent it from slipping fully inside the anal cavity.

Camming: Using webcams over the internet to perform sexual activities that are enjoyed by one or more audience members. Camming can be a reciprocal activity with both parties watching the other and can include the use of remote control sexual aids. Cane: Most commonly constructed from wood, a cane is a thin rod used in impact play for striking someone. The implement originates from maritime use when offenders were flogged. Catheter see urethral play : A medical device usually made from soft plastic that is used to relieve the bladder when someone is incapacitated after surgery by being fed into the urethra.

CBT Cock and Ball Torture : The practice of causing pain or constriction to the male genitals through the use of clamps, ball stretchers, electro-stimulation or wax play. The term covers a wide range of activities. Cell popping see body modification : A form of temporary branding, an area of the skin is temporarily Subjected to a de of dots made using a heated poker. Applied for a brief second, the dots cause a superficial burn which can last several weeks or months. Chastity: A form of bondage whereby access to the genitals is denied to a person preventing orgasm until the Dom decides otherwise.

For men, this is usually via the use of a cock cage whereas women use a chastity belt. Chemical play: Any play which uses chemicals to induce sensations in either yourself or a partner. Substances should always be tested prior to using liberally and include products like tiger balm, herbs, spices and oils as well as rubbing alcohol and menthol.

Circle jerk: An activity where a of men sit or stand in a circle and masturbate list of bdsm terms person to the side of them, creating a mutual masturbation circle. Clover clamp: A type of clamp, often used on the nipples but can be used on other areas of the body, which features a mechanism from which a cord or chain can be attached.

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Offering extensive pressure, the clover clamp is a popular form of nipple torture play. Cock milking see progasm and prostate massage : The art of forcing ejaculation through stimulation of the prostate, the subject can discharge semen without orgasming or extend orgasm if performed at the right time. Cock ring: An O shaped device slipped around the shaft of the penis and worn at the base to maintain erection. This can be an actual collar but may extend to other forms of apparel or accessory.

Collared: Also known as being ownedsomeone who is Collared is considered the property of their Master or Dom. Collaring: Usually the practice of being Collared involves some form of ritual or ceremony which can be referred to as a Collaring; used in a similar way as to describe a wedding service. Compersion: Most easily defined as the opposite of jealousy, feelings of compersion are experience when someone you are in love or involved with receives pleasure from someone else. Can list of bdsm terms applied to cuckolds who experience great joy from watching their partner perform sexually with someone else.

Consent: A form of permission given to an involvement in an activity. The absence of consent is considered assault. Consensual non-consensuality: A form of BDSM play, scene or activity where consent is granted for something unknown to happen, within safely defined limits. Consideration : Consideration is a term used when partners are deciding on a change of role in a relationship of power. This could be considering whether to accept a Collar from a Master. Contract : Not usually a legally binding document, a contract is a written agreement between a Sub and Dom or Master and Slave outlining the details of their relationship.

Sometimes this can form part of a Collaring ceremony but is often a soberly and mutually consenting document that provides some form of safety and structure to their activities.

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